Dating Apps Keep You Single.
They profit from swipes, dead-end chats, and keeping you hooked. We're a service for people who want something real.
Real Life Dates. Vetted People
We curate matches based on vibes & values rather than superficial criteria
How it works
We only accept extraordinary individuals with a growth mindset. You can sign up yourself or refer a friend.
1. Getting To Know You
We'll start with a call and questionnaire to understand your needs and assess if you're right for us. In return, you'll receive insights about who you might work best with.
2. We Do the Hard Work
Forget filters. We handpick matches and explain why we think you'll work well together. We'll curate the top matches to save you from swiping.
3. No More Wasted Time
Meet fast, give feedback. We help you prioritise what matters—whether to invest more time or move on. We'll use your feedback to refine your matches.
Ready for something real?
Sign up to take the first step.
Refer your friend
We know how draining dating can be. If you have an amazing friend who could benefit from our service, please refer them here.
Testimonials
I was a bit drained from dating apps. The endless swiping, the hope followed by disappointment. Settled felt very different - almost like a matchmaker but without the price. They took the time to really listen to what I wanted.
- Sofia
My first date using Settled was 10 times better than most of the dates I'd been on using dating apps. I don't know how they match but it feels a lot more human.
- James
I like how Settled pushes you to real life dates rather than endless messaging. It just takes away the guessing game. Also love how they tell you why you're a good match with those they've selected.
- Sara